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Monday, July 7, 2008
1:33 AM
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I dont necessarily like everybody I noe, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesnt like me, I will still be OK and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, anymore than someone can get me to like them.I dont need approval all the times. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be OK. Making mistakes is sth we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when i make a mistake. Im trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It's ok for others to make mistakes, too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes tat others make. Ppl who do things i dont like are not necessarily bad ppl. They shld not necessarily be punished just because I dont like wat they do or did. There is no reason why I shld be the way somebody else want me to be. Ppl will be watever they want to be, and i will be watever i want to be. I cannot control other ppl or change them. They are who they are, we all deserve basic respect. I will survive if things are different than wat i want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept ppl the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if i cant change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why i shld hv to like everything. Even if i dont like it, i can live wif it. Im responsible for how i feel and wat i do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If i have a rotten day, im the one who allowed it to be tat way. If I hv a great day, im the one who deserve the credits for being positive. It is not the responsibiliy of other ppl to change so tt i can feel better. Im the one who is in charge of my life. I dont need to watch out for things to go wrong. Things usually go just fine, and when they dont, i can handle it. I dont have to waste my energy worrying. The sky wouldnt fall in, things would be ok. I can. Even though I may be faced wif difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do sth. I dont need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don have to depend on somebody else to take care of me. I dont have to be a certain way becoz of wat has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It's silly to think I cant help being the way I am. Of course I can. I can change. I cant solve other ppl's problems for them. I dont have to take on other ppl's problems as if they were my own. I dont need to change other ppl or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves, and can solve their own problems. I can care and be some help, but I cant do everything for them. There is more than a way to do sth. More than one person has had good ideas tat will work. There is no one and only 'best' way. Everybody has ideas tat are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone's ideas are worthwhile, and everyone has sth worthwhile to contribute. |
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